Veteran actor Anupam Kher, known for his powerful performances and candid reflections, has opened up about a deeply personal aspect of his life—his unfulfilled journey into fatherhood. In a rare moment of vulnerability, the 69-year-old star revealed that while he embraced stepson Sikander as his own, he now feels the quiet absence of not having a child of his own. From his bond with wife Kirron Kher to the reasons behind not having biological children, Anupam shared an honest and heartfelt account of how time has shaped his perspective on parenting.
A Realisation That Came with Time
In a recent conversation with Raj Shamani, the veteran actor reflected on the emotional realisation of not having a child of his own. While he never gave it much thought earlier in life, he admitted that after turning 60, the feeling of something missing began to surface. His frequent interactions with children—through his foundation and past television work—made him more aware of the absence. It was during these moments of introspection that he acknowledged the quiet void of not experiencing parenthood firsthand.
Why He Never Had a Child of His Own
When asked why he never had children of his own, Anupam revealed that Kirron faced complications with conception. While they did try, the pregnancy didn’t progress as expected. During this period, Anupam was deeply focused on building his career. He shared that Kirron’s son Sikander, who was just four years old when they got married, naturally became a part of his life. Over the years, Anupam formed a strong bond with him and never felt anything was missing, as Sikander filled that space in his heart.
Not a Regret, But a Quiet Thought
He further reflected on how his feelings evolved over time, admitting that while he didn’t feel the absence of having a biological child earlier, he has come to sense it now. In a past conversation, he acknowledged that although he shares a close bond with Sikander, there’s a unique joy in witnessing a child grow up and building that bond from the beginning. He clarified that it’s not a regret or a tragedy in his life, but simply a thought that crosses his mind at times — that it would have been a beautiful experience.
